Some information that is good to know:
A 50mm objective does not gather or transmit more light to your eye than a 40/42mm objective in a 1" tube. It is the the exit pupil and the light transmission quality of the glass that determines low light visibility and what you can see at sunrise, sunset, and at night. The exit pupil should be as large as the human eye under the same conditions. The exit pupil is calculated by dividing the objective diameter by the power setting on the scope. At night a 42mm objective scope set on 6 power will give you a 7mm exit pupil which is optimal and matches your eye and transmits the maximum light the eye can see.
From Nikon: "As far as 30mm vs. 1", they do not gather or transmit any more light than a 1" scope, but they provide a larger sweet spot to enhance resolution."
From Leupold: "The key to a scope providing a bright image to the shooter is not how much light it "gathers" but how much usable light it transmits. "Gathers, transmits, what's the difference?" Quite a lot, actually. First of all, rifle scope do not "gather" light, they transmit it. Yes, large objective scopes allow more light to enter the scope, but that by itself does not guarantee that the image will be any brighter than a smaller objective scope's. In other words, the better the glass and coatings you get, the better your night hunting."
Since a healthy eye pupil is 7, think in numbers of 7:
First number represents magnification setting, 7 represents healthy exit pupil, last number is your objective lens size.
1X7= 7MM
2X7= 14MM
3X7= 21MM
4X7=28MM
5X7=35MM
6X7=42MM
7X7=49MM
7X8=56MM
FYI- The quality of the glass and the size/type of the reticle make a big difference in what you can see in low light conditions as well. Not to mention; what looks good to someone else might not look good to you which in my case would be red dots, holographic, and/or reflex type sights (look blurry to me)
Also, some illuminated reticles can drown out or obstruct the sight picture and/or light up the tube at night because the setting/adjustment control doesn't allow you to dim it enough. As mentioned the rheostat control is very nice and is one of the best features on scope with illuminated retIcles.
When i use a light, i like a mil dot reticle because it stands out (thickness) and I don't need an illuminated reticle.
I went hunting last night under total moon light (no other light) and was using a Trijicon accupoint 3-9x40 and the fine lit reticle help a lot.
I keep my scopes set on 3 98% of the time for the wide field of view and can see as far as I need to at night so i don't see any advantage to using a larger objective than 40 and I don't even need that.
Also fixed or anything with less lenses will also have a better sight picture in low light too.
You'll have to find what works best for you and unfortunatly, it's not cheap.
Good luck on whatever you decide.