I hardly think trimming that small amount is "butchering".
If you REALLY want a learning experience, measure a few thousand cases to see just how far off, both too LONG and too SHORT new cases can be...you can also measure a bunch of fired factory cases found at ranges fired from different weapons.
THEN...take those 3 "ruined" cases...trim them all the the same length and fire them with whatever load you feel safe...several reloding cycles... DO NOT trim them,
but measuring them after each firing and record the groups, then do the same with 3 of your "correctly trimmed" cases...lastly...compare the groups to see any differences.
I'm guessing you will get about 0.002" "growth" after each cycle so in 5 cycles you will be back to your manual stated "trim to" length.
But why fret...just look in another manual...you might just see a totally different "trim to length", which is telling you a whole bunch of between the lines information.
And while you're at it, check out a bunch of SAAMI and trim to lengths for other cartridges. A quick glance through the Nosler manual and you will see it gives a MAX SAAMI COL and a cartridge length in the picture of 1.76"(Max SAAMI) but doesn't say whether it is a max SAAMI lengh or a trim length...Hogdons 2006 gives a trim length and Max COL for a specific bullet and the Accurate Armes #2 gives a max of 1.76", trim to of 1.74"(0.020" difference), and both a max/min COL...and Load from a Disk gives Max SAAMI COL's.
Then read the fine print in the reloading section...most manuals cover all aspects of reloading AND the reasons why some of the time.
Reloading manuals are all different, give different information on loads, fired from different weapons...a manual is just a guideline, NOT an absolute. If you learn anything, learn that.
You have to understand many reloaders start out wanting to reproduce "perfectly" what their first reloading manual gives...leave that to the perfectionist with a "perfect" rifle and "perfect" components...let them go nutz trying to obtain perfection in an imperfect world..."WE PERFECTIONISTS" ALL learn after a while no such thing as perfect exists...especially in a factory rifle.
But not to worry...I used to "earn" much of my reloading supplies by turning those crude and totally imperfect factory rifles into "almost" bugholers by being thoroughly versed in all aspects of this sport and applying that knowledge to their shooters...you have to be flexible and help make things fit.
This is not brain surgury or life and death(unless you go TOTALLY postal) it is just reloading...you gotta chill out and enjoy it, this is supposed to be fun.
Luck