i will try. and i'm no expert so someone correct me if i am wrong.
The 1st focal plane is actually the end of the scope closest to the target (objective end). Think of it as the first plane of glass that the light from the target hits when entering the scope.
2nd focal plane is the plane of glass closest to the eye (ocular) end of the scope.
The main thing about focal planes when it comes to scopes is which plane the reticle is located on. If the reticle is on the 1st focal plane, the reticle will be magnified when turning the power of your scope up. Therefore, if you have a drop compensator in your scope, the yardage values will NOT CHANGE with a first focal plane scope when you adjust the power of the scope.
However, if the reticle is in the second focal plane (the end closest to the eye), which is the most common in scopes, adjusting the power WILL AFFECT the yardage values on a bdc reticle. for example, if you have a hash mark under your main crosshairs that is zeroed for 400 yards on 3x power, changing the scope to 9x power will take you from 400 to say 300 yd zero. thats just an example, so don't think that's always the case.
I'm sure there are guys on here that know a lot more about the physics of the focal planes. but i figured i'd chip in since i was bored.