I think you are confusing/interchanging the shoulder length of the case with the acronym c.o.a.l. (cartridge over all length)...
C.o.a.l. is determined by measuring a case with the bullet seated (with calipers), from bullet tip to boltface. C.o.a.l. is a function of how deeply you seat the bullet into the case and is completely independant of headspace...
CASE length is the measurement of your brass (with calipers) from the mouth of the case to the boltface. It is also SAAMI spec'ed, according to caliber, with minimum and maximum measurements. It is also independant of headspace...
TO measure headspace, you need a tool that will measure the case from the neck/shoulder junction to the boltface. A case mic gauge will allow you to determine your chamber dimensions by measuring a 1X fired case from YOUR rifle according to a standard (SAAMI) length.
To prove this point, read on:
I have two 6X45 uppers. My 1X fired brass measures .004" LESS (at the shoulder) from my shorty upper as compared to 1X brass from my 20" upper. BUT I load rounds for both to the same c.o.a.l. (2.258")!
SO when I resize my brass, I must be sure to bump the shoulder back enough to account for that slight difference in HEADSPACE between the two. And I measure that with a case mic gauge to set my resize die accordingly...
Make sense???
As for bullets jumping to the lands, you need another tool to determine your chamber length to the lands. Then seat your bullet accordking to an ogive measurement from that particular bullet. This measurement has NOTHING to do with case/headspace measurements...