An update - spoke to Hornady, they were very nice and said that part shouldn't even have been sold as such, though I've seen it a couple places now. They also said that part number shouldnt have a lock ring with it, and mine did. I got the die ordered through them, bad part is it was 20 bucks and 5 for shipping. Which brings my total for my cam lock without collet to about 45 bucks. Midway prices them at 20.19. Man being stupid gets expensive! If I had thought about it, I woulda just ordered another whole assembly and had a back up camming assembly.... Hopefully got my dose of moron out of the way for the day!
ETA - got it cancelled in time, reordered correct assembly for 4 dollars more. Now I have a spare toggle clamp.