Thanks for all the replies this far guys, all the information coming in and what I have found on my own has been an education. I don't mean for this to be the end, so replies are still welcome!
After hearing what Skypup had to say and asking a dealer as well, It would be against my good judgement to buy a UTM x. One of the two in question have a 35mW laser which is not supposed to be out of government hands and I could never get fixed or upgraded or caught with. I don't really need lasers anyway. Also they are out of warranty. I was told that BAE charges $1600 just to do a tear down and look at and that does not go towards the repair, it is on top of the repair costs. Several of you suggested the Trijicon IR Defense MK3's, I didn't realize that it has a BAE core. Tonya at Aurora Tactical was a huge help, gave me a lot of her time and seems to have some great prices as well. I'm strongly leaning towards an MK3 along with a NV headset. Guess I'm going dedicated night weapon. 6.5 Grendel or a shorter lighter weight .308 than what I have? Been wanting to build a Grendel!
By all means keep the input coming in, I'm an eager learner!