Plumbob
I'm no expert and I'm certain there are plenty folks here that are way more up to speed with purchasing a home than I am. Those much more qualified to point you in the right direction will be the ones to really listen to. We just closed on a home last month so things are somewhat fresh in my mind.
I just purchased a new old home, second home that is, it will be a vacation home for now with a plan to move in completely within the year.
First off, contact a lending institute to get preapproved for the amount you will be able to spend and then reduce that amount by 10 grand. That way you will be a little more comfortable in making your purchase and maybe have a few extra bucks available to make a few needed upgrades.
Secondly, sit down and list everything you want in a home, go over the list and add or remove things you really need or don't need and what is important to you. Things like, yard size, fenced yard for kids, garage/shop, how many bedrooms, air conditioning etc. etc.
Then you simply contact a realtor, don't be afraid to try a few, someone you feel comfortable with is most important. Don't contact the listing agent as they are more interested in providing the best interest for the seller. Use your own agent.
Have a goal set and a reasonable price in mind that you are willing to pay for a place. Once you find the home you would be happy with, you simply make an offer on it and if the offer is accepted then you can get technical with the little things like what stays and what you want to be gone prior to signing, like old junk cars or trash around the place. Don't get caught up emotionally with any one place, I finally did but it was only after the offer was accepted and that is when the gut starts tightening and sleepless nights occur.
Make certain you GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING.....GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING......GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING!!!!
Call for a complete home inspection and full water test and any other test or inpection you feel is needed.
Search the internet and WHEN you find an agent you like, have them put you on their e-mail list, you will get all the updates and the newest stuff on the market much faster that way.
I had two realtors looking for me, each in different states, so I was getting a lot of property listings coming through.
A realtor will answer all of your questions and you are under no obligation to work with them at all. People come and people go. My realtor was not my friend but when it came to getting stuff done she was all over it and I was able to work with her to get the job done.
Good luck in your search, it's fun, exciting and the feeling of owning your own home is the best feeling you will ever have.
JUST GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING...........DO NOT TRUST WHAT SOMEONE TELLS YOU!!!!