I like my Kershaws, dont own a Bench Made. But in all honesty Im really starting to love what Spyderco is putting out. Ive had a Tenacious for a few months it has been my new EDC (unless Im carrying the skeletool) For $32 on amazon I think its pretty hard to beat for a general use EDC blade.
If I were to choose from the 3 you listed it would be the mini grip. I dont know much about steel but 154CM I've heard of and own, it works pretty good. I personally like the smaller blade that it has as well.
EDITED: Forgot to mention If i remember correctly the blur is an assisted opener, I dont know how much work you do in dusty/dirty environments but I did have a sog twitch II that was assisted, I sold it pretty quick after stacking hay one day, the dust/dirt got in my pocket and made the knife a real PITA to open, maybe it was just that knife but I think assisted openers have pretty tight tolerances making them annoying to use after getting dirt in them.