NM Leon
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Red, While it raises food for thought, your quote is itself largely myth or misinformation.
Just a few points without disassembling it in detail:
There were very few families in America (percentage wise) that ever were able to afford slaves or servants. To hold that as the "norm" at any time for other than a very narrow segment of the population is disingenuous at best.
As a just "for instance" in colonial days the average couple lived to be married less than twelve years because the average life expectancy was 25 years. Divorce was almost non existent.
We are much more likely to " have a teenage daughter turn up a mother herself" than at any time in our history, especially an unwed teenage daughter. In many segments of our population a 75% illegitimacy rate is the norm, and 26 year old grandmothers are not uncommon.
As far as the "destruction of family values" I would point to two factors that have been instrumental in our society.
#1 the government welfare system that required that a woman be an unwed (or abandoned) mother in order to collect her "entitlement" checks. If she had more children (without a father around) she could get a raise. Being a government (morally neutral) program, this effectively eliminated the shame that had been associated with unwed motherhood from the dawn of civilization and therefore permeated into society at large. A great "liberating" factor for women's rights (supposedly), but the actual consequence was a tremendous increase in the poverty rates of women and a huge increase in the rate of illegitimate births (increasing the poverty rates of children). Of course another unintended consequence (or perhaps not so unintended) of this system was increased government control of our society (they had to take care of these poor children after all).
#2 the ascendancy of "no fault" divorce laws that (again) liberated women from the the awful strictures of a bad marriage, but in fact made marriage a "temporary" arrangement where women (and men) weren't forced to make good choices the first time around, and so the result was a tremendous increase in the incidence of abandoned single moms, especially in light of the safety net of #1.
The question isn't what is perfect (in theory), nothing short of Heaven will ever be perfect. The rational calculation in the real world is what is less imperfect. By most metrics a return to "traditional" family values (accommodating modern economic realities) would probably be an improvement over the current conditions.
Just a few points without disassembling it in detail:
There were very few families in America (percentage wise) that ever were able to afford slaves or servants. To hold that as the "norm" at any time for other than a very narrow segment of the population is disingenuous at best.
As a just "for instance" in colonial days the average couple lived to be married less than twelve years because the average life expectancy was 25 years. Divorce was almost non existent.
We are much more likely to " have a teenage daughter turn up a mother herself" than at any time in our history, especially an unwed teenage daughter. In many segments of our population a 75% illegitimacy rate is the norm, and 26 year old grandmothers are not uncommon.
As far as the "destruction of family values" I would point to two factors that have been instrumental in our society.
#1 the government welfare system that required that a woman be an unwed (or abandoned) mother in order to collect her "entitlement" checks. If she had more children (without a father around) she could get a raise. Being a government (morally neutral) program, this effectively eliminated the shame that had been associated with unwed motherhood from the dawn of civilization and therefore permeated into society at large. A great "liberating" factor for women's rights (supposedly), but the actual consequence was a tremendous increase in the poverty rates of women and a huge increase in the rate of illegitimate births (increasing the poverty rates of children). Of course another unintended consequence (or perhaps not so unintended) of this system was increased government control of our society (they had to take care of these poor children after all).
#2 the ascendancy of "no fault" divorce laws that (again) liberated women from the the awful strictures of a bad marriage, but in fact made marriage a "temporary" arrangement where women (and men) weren't forced to make good choices the first time around, and so the result was a tremendous increase in the incidence of abandoned single moms, especially in light of the safety net of #1.
The question isn't what is perfect (in theory), nothing short of Heaven will ever be perfect. The rational calculation in the real world is what is less imperfect. By most metrics a return to "traditional" family values (accommodating modern economic realities) would probably be an improvement over the current conditions.