I have to agree:::
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You may want to reconsider that relationship.
You are the one that makes the decision about getting an AR or whatever else. If it is a mutual decision that is fine but if she is in charge now, telling you "No" you got a tough row to hoe.
While I can understand her concern, my wife will discuss any proposed situation with me, but the decision is mine.
When we were first married, and even before, and I was considering a new car, motorcycle, etc... The comment was, "You know what you can afford..." and after 20 years, it's still pretty much the same...She has her income, I have mine and after the basic bills are paid, we each make our own decisions....
There are three basic factors that will cause problems in a marital relationship: 1) Money, 2) Sex, and 3) Booze...in all the potential applications...
You had better be really comfortable with where each of you stand on each one of them....