RFolk,
Question 1) Deep down bottom line, for the most part, yes.
Question 2) No, we "behave" because of our love for God, not out of fear.
Question 3) No, Romans 3:10 says, "No one is good" ; Romans 3:23 says, "All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God".
This is what God says, not me, its His Word, not mine. I am just as guilty of sin as anyone else. I came to the understanding of His Word that I am saved from eternal separation from God through His Son (Romans 3:23-26) many years ago. I can and do share with others what He has done for me, and His immeasurable love for each one of us. He does have a set of standards for us to live by and its our choosing who we will serve. Its a free will choice He has given us all.
I did not start this thread and I think the title of it left it open ended enough to have a meaninful discussion. Thus far it has been that way. I have taken the liberty to share my heart in what I believe. God loves us all, John 3:16. Have a great day /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grinning-smiley-003.gif!